Why I (or someone) May Not Follow You Back on Instagram or Like Your Pictures

Technically this post is for bloggers who use an Instagram account to go along with their blog. Or it could be for a blogger who is considering adding an Instagram account to their blog for their social media following.

It's been a while since I have done a blogger help topic. So today I'm going to tackle the occasionally controversial subject of Instagram and why you may not be getting the image likes or follows that you think you should.
I'm also going to put the below subject matter blame ALL on me, and I'll write it all as if I am telling it to you straight up or as I would face to face.


WHY I (or someone) MAY NOT FOLLOW YOU BACK
OR LIKE YOUR INSTAGRAM PHOTO


* Your photos are constantly blurry or terrible quality. No one likes a headache!
Along with that, becareful using the filters. While some may look great with your camera, others can make your image take on a negative appeal. If in doubt, just go with the original image sometimes those are best anyway!

* At first glance of your IG account, all I see in each picture is you trying to sell me something, or product push.

* Your account is private. If it's private I rarely will ever follow you because I have no idea what type of account I am asking to follow. I like to see what I am getting, I mean that is what IG is all about anyway, seeing and pictures.

* You're a blogger, but your using you're IG account for both your personal and blog business.
You should WANT to have these separate if only for safety reasons. But if you do combine them, make sure since you are using it for your blog overall and make the personal use relate to your blog.
If I want to follow because I like your blog and you get too off topic on your IG feed, I may look and have no interest to follow you.

* Nudity or constant partial nudity, this includes swimsuit shots or mirror bra selfies etc...
While some may want to follow you for a peek. I myself could careless what you look like in a bikini.
I often look through my IG account at work or in public places, I don't want people glancing and wondering what I am looking at.
Additionally, I often allow my younger nieces and nephews to play with my phone and they love IG, it's embarrassing if they see something they shouldn't. So for all those reasons, including the one that I don't want to see it, I definitely won't follow or will un-follow you for this reason.

(On that same subject, remember that if you are a blogger looking to work with advertisers. If you have nudity or close to it selfies, your probably not going to land campaigns with companies because most don't like to be affiliated with that type of promotion.)

* Gross pictures. I doubt I am alone, but I don't care if you just ran 1000 miles. I don't want to see pictures of your blistered bloody feet or other chaffed body parts, especially if your feet are still dirty in the shot, just ewe!

* You only post selfies of your shoes or meals.
Okay, I am NOT talking about food bloggers who take beautiful shots of food and it's their business.
I am talking about those who take pictures of each meal or half eaten meal and well I will just say it the food looks disgusting or I can't even tell what it is.
Also, I totally get the, take a selfie shot of your running shoes and post your times, I mean we all do it from time to time. But lately I've seen a lot of accounts that daily take nearly the exact same photo of their feet and post nothing else in their feed. Kinda boring, so while I may not un-follow you for it, eventually I may get bored and not bother sharing a like on the same exact picture each day.

* You only post pictures of your kids.
Granted I understand for a lot of mommy bloggers this is the thing. For me personally I don't follow mom accounts because well, I'm not a mom.
When I see a fitness blogger who is posting random pictures of every odd thing their kid does, I have a very hard time giving them a like on their photos.
Not because I want to un-follow them, because I will still follow you even if you "kid me out". But unless I know you personally, or have gotten to know you really well through your blog. I feel quite awkward liking your kids photos, because well for various reasons, but mostly because I don't want to feel like a creepy stranger liking your kids photos.

* You're posting at the wrong time of night. If you only have time to post at Midnight, that's fine you may pick up some likes from a night owl or someone in another country. While you can post anytime you want, don't be disappointed in your numbers if your posting at odd hours.


WHY I (or someone) MAY UN-FOLLOW YOU

* You followed me just to get a follow and then un-followed me a day or two after I followed you.
When I notice this, you can guarantee I am NOT going to keep following you. I find this to be one of the poorest practice to gaining followers and I have even blocked a few IG accounts who do this repeatedly. For that matter, why do bloggers do this? I don't get it, truthfully these types of IG accounts annoy the heck out of me, I have no time for them!

* You use a APP that automatically likes and comments on your followers photos.  While I may not care if you have an App that auto likes my posts. If you have an App that posts random comments on my pictures that don't apply to what it is. Don't think your fooling me or anyone else.
Sometimes if I see a IG account has gone completely computer animated I un-follow. No point in dealing with an automated account, I like real people who actually like to interact even if only on occasion!

* You've changed your theme.  Maybe originally I followed you because you were all about fitness, travel or motivation. Then later you've switched to pictures of only your kids or just random shared thoughts and images that don't relate to your blog or the reason I followed you originally. In some cases, if you've gone so far away from the reason I followed you in the first place, I may un-follow you for lack of interest.

* You go inactive. Yes we all get busy, it is part of life. But if you haven't used your IG account in a few months then I'm assuming your no longer active. I use a App that un-followers closed or fake accounts it occasionally also picks up non-active accounts. While I do get the final say with this App, if it does appear your no longer an active user I may un-follow.

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Okay, so those are just a few of my reasons. I know I am occasionally odd, but I don't think I am so odd that I am alone in my thoughts above.

If you are looking to grow your Instagram account, or start one for your blog. The above may give you a few things to consider as you decide what type of theme you want to go with.

Additionally, it may give you ideas if you are struggling growing your current account. Or maybe it's time to go through your Instagram account and clean it up a bit and re-create it as you want it to be.



Instagram is one of the most fun interactive tools and you can use along with your blog. In fact some bloggers have dropped the blog and have gone completely Instagram. It's an amazing, when used correctly. But the correct way is different for everyone, and different for each audience. Play around with it, find your niche and put your best "photos" forward and watch your account take on a growth of it's own. 



So tell me or help me add to the list:

What are some reasons you UN-FOLLOW someone on Instagram?
Or what are reasons you may not LIKE someones photo?
Do you get annoyed with the Apps that Comment for users too?
Do you agree, or disagree with my thoughts above? (It's okay if you disagree.)

How to Grow Your Social Media Infuence

Growing your blog takes time, lots of time and hard work.  If it were easy, then everyone would do it. Writing great content, connecting with your audience are the biggest keys to developing a great blog. However, for every blog that wants to succeed many will tell you finding the right social media niches are also one of the keys to success.

In fact, if you want to eventually turn your blog into something you can make a little money on, you're going to need to grow your social media.

I may not have one of the biggest blogs out there, in fact it's not even close.  But in a few short years, I have taken a blog that received 1-5 page views a month to one that receives thousands.
In two years I grew from about 35 twitter followers to over 6,500.   I went from 10 Facebook followers to over 1,100.
Last year I ventured into Pinterest and last June I finally took the plunge to Instagram.  I have in a few short months gone from zero to 1,200 Pinterest followers.  Instagram 0 to a little over 1,400.

I don't show you these stats to brag, in fact there is no bragging at all.  Instead it is to show you, that if you want to grow your blog and your following you can!  In short, if I can do it, you can too!  All it takes is a lot of hard work (a lot) and time and the will to succeed.

The truth is, I gained this skill from another blogger (Carla) who told how she did it.  I would love to give a shot out to her blog, but she is currently taking some time away from blogging.
Although, I have to be honest I started doing it exactly as she mentioned but I have altered how I do it a bit to fit my needs and schedule.  So I am going to share with you my version of obtaining legit good followers in social media and keeping them.

FIRST

It's first important to figure out which one (social media source) is bringing you the most traffic to your blog. Check your analytics and view it over several months, or even over the past year.
Which one is bringing you the most traffic?  That is the one you're going to want to start growing first!

It's also good to know which ones are bringing you the least amount of traffic.  Sure you still want to keep them all, but this will help you to know if your spending your efforts on a possible lost cause.
For instance when I first started I thought Facebook was the easiest thing to use, I used it all the time and even found it to be the one that I was able to grow the fastest originally.
But when I asked myself the question which brings me the most traffic?
I realized all that effort on Facebook and I was getting a few likes but virtually no actual traffic to my blog.  At that time I pulled my numbers.  Twitter was where I was getting the most traffic and the sad thing was, I wasn't even using it much.

Others differ, so many bloggers tell me they have the largest amount of traffic from Pinterest and maybe some still do have Facebook as their largest source.  They thing is every blog is different, people follow in various ways for different reasons.  But the key is to first find out which source is bringing you the most traffic.  Then start building that one!  The other key is to work one social media niche at a time. (avoid the burnout!)

SECOND

After you know which one to put your focus on.  It's time to start building your follower base.  There are various ways to do this.  But I am going to be completely honest with you.  If you are going to build it correctly it's going to take time and work!  All good things do!!!

So what is the best way to find followers?  
Well that is up to you, but this is how I have done it and it works for me! 

Now I know as you start reading this, your going to think.  It's too much work, or too time consuming.  But keep in mind as you read this you'll only be focusing on ONE social media channel at a time.

Okay, so you've got your largest source of social media bringing your blog page views.  In my case that is Twitter, so I am going to use Twitter as my example for the rest of this post to reduce confusion.

MY 5 A DAY APPROACH

Decide how much time you have each day or each week.  I determined I had enough time to go with 5 a day.  Granted I didn't do this every single day, but on days I had time or had time on a break at work this is what I would do.  I would shoot for at least 5 new people to follow.

But not just any 5 people.  I did a quick little bit of research on them first, because I wanted to spend my time doing this wisely.

A LITTLE RESEARCH 

BRINGS A BETTER INVESTMENT 
FOR YOUR TIME

1 I quickly check that they actually wrote a profile and that they may be interested in what I blog about (similarities between us).  Made sure they were a real person/account.  If they looked like someone I would be friends with, or would like what I blogged about I moved on to the next step.

2 I looked at how many people they follow, if it looked like they follow people back then I moved on.  If they had thousands of followers, but only followed a couple of people then I decided do I want to just follow this person to follow them because they might be cool, sometimes I did.  (Because lets face it their are some awesome people to follow out there that you can gain a lot from, but they are probably never going to follow you.)
But if I am just working on finding new people to follow me back, I would skip a non-follower person and move to the next person.

3 I looked at how often they tweet.  If they haven't been on twitter for weeks to months, more than likely there account is inactive.  So I would skip them and move on.  However, if they tweeted in the last hour or few days, they are likely a current twitter user who might follow me back.

4  Then I look at what the last few things they tweeted were.  If they were totally negative, swearing, stuff I could careless about. (I also skip all accounts with any nude pictures:) I skipped them and moved to the next person.  However, if they tweeted interesting things, seemed upbeat like someone I would want to listen to.  I moved to the next step.

5  I follow them!

THAT'S IT

Then I repeat this, until I find at least 5 new people to follow!
It sounds like it may be time consuming, but only takes a minute or less per person you look at.
If I stuck to 5 then I didn't get bored or find myself on twitter for hours:)  That is the main key, using your time wisely!

What happens then?  Well their are no guarantee's, but many of them will follow back.

You can only follow so many people at a time, before twitter will hold your account.  I have never had this happen to me, but I have heard you can't follow to many people if they aren't following you back.  Which is why I prefer to do my research first, and probably why I have never had this happen to me.  It's also the reason I stick to 5 on days I do this.

You're not going to gain 1000's of new followers over night.  But if you do this consistently at least a few times a week, you will gradually build a legit following base.  It took me a couple of years to get to 4,000.

I did this and worked hard on this until I hit around 4,000 followers, and then I started to notice a trend.  Many people were just following me because others were.  When I hit 5,000 it snuck up on me and was pretty cool, because I realized I no longer had to sit and spend the long process of gaining new followers.  They were coming to me on their own and I thought that was the most awesome thing ever!!!  I still follow people back, because it's all about sharing the love!

I personally recommend building one social media following base at a time.  Because it takes time! Also it allows you to put your focus into one thing, instead of spreading yourself too thin.  Set yourself a goal amount and work towards it.  Once you hit it, then move onto the area that brings you the 2nd most page views an so on.

I explained this using Twitter.  But I did the exact same thing with Pinterest my goal was 1,000 when I hit it and currently I am working on my Instagram account.

Facebook is a little different, because you have to follow using your personal Facebook account, and they don't know your page.  I have had many people comment on my page, "A Like From ____ (their page)" If they do this, I make sure to send a page like back as well.
I don't get much traffic from Facebook anymore, so I just let that one grow slowly.  But if Facebook is your main traffic source, you may want to keep the above in mind when you go around liking other pages.

ALSO

Hosting giveaways are an okay way to build your follower list.  However, a large percentage of giveaway followers only participate in giveaways.  They are not your best chance of turning into long term followers who come to read your posts daily.  However, this is still a good way to obtain a few.

REASONS I WONT FOLLOW PEOPLE BACK 

or WHY TO UN-FOLLOW

* This is a personal preference but if someone under 18 follows me, unless I know them personally in life I do not follow them back.  I am an adult, and don't feel comfortable about following children.

*  Sometimes I may follow someone then all of a sudden I notice nude pics or just nasty postings.  If this happens, I unfollow.  I personally don't feel the need to junk my life up with that kind of stuff.

* I have noticed other people doing what I do.  I am all about helping them out with a follow back as long as they fit my preferences.  However, when I follow someone back and immediately notice they unfollow me, as soon as they got their follow.  This ticks me off, so much!!!!
I don't believe this should be done just to gain followers if you aren't willing to continue to follow. So if someone does this to me, I unfollow them back and I won't follow them again.
ALSO I want to mention, if you are going to do the method I showed you above, DO NOT just follow people to get a follow and then unfollow them.  It's rude and yes they do notice the people who do that, and they don't care much for you after.

* Abuse or bullying.  We are online and we blog and share our lives.  With that we understand not everyone is going to agree.  I little negativity is expected and normal.  Some disagreement or debate is actually welcomed and acceptable.  But although I haven't had this happen, I have heard of some getting bullied or lots of verbal abuse.  In this case ignore them, un-follow and block them, report them if it seems appropriate.  Life is too short to allow rude people to affect you!

ONE THING TO NOTE

Some people buy their followers, and I completely disagree with this.  Why would you want a bunch of followers from a bunch of fake accounts that are never going to really drive traffic to your site, just to make your numbers look better?  Don't expect a return in investment when it comes to your blog. Which is generally the point of followers.  Plus, Twitter bans this and if they find out your participating you may have your account inactivated.

I hope this helps some of you!  When I first started doing this I wrote down all my numbers, and it really does give you a good feeling of accomplishment as you watch it slowly grow.


If you do it correctly, you'll find not only did you accumulate lots of new social media followers.  But if they are people who are interested in what your doing, they will interact with you, and visit your blog, and re-share your posts.  Keep in mind a lot of social media followers visit blogs and read posts, but they are usually using mobile devices and you might not see a large amount of comments from these page views, but you will see your page views in your analytics go up!

DON'T FORGET TO INTERACT

You've put the work into obtaining these new followers, but if you aren't interacting with them on a steady basis, how can you expect them to interact with you?
I've seen people with 10,000 followers, but they never get a single like.  But then I've seen people with 100 followers who can get 20 likes.  The difference is interaction!

True it's impossible, I'll never be able to interact with all the followers I have each day, but I can interact with a few each day.
I also have a 2-5 minute rule a day for each or my social media platforms.  I try to spend a few minutes each day as I have time just interacting, liking, sharing, re-tweeting, leaving a short comment on the posts they share that grab my interest.

A break at work, or during a commercial if I am watching T.V. or if I am a passenger in a car...  If I don't take time to interact with them, how can I ever expect them to continue to interact with me?
In other words, if you're going to put the time into building your social media, make sure you keep that time as well spent!

Want to grow your social media influence?  

Go ahead and give it a try right now!

Have any of you tried this or something similar before?  How did it work for you?
Do you find followers via a different method?  If so, please share I would love to hear!


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